[kj] Partisan management of egos

[LONESTYLE at aol.com]

Peter.
 
 
You are a wanker!
 
~LB
 
In a message dated 3/31/2006 1:34:41 P.M. Pacific Standard Time,  
flightbringer at hotmail.co.uk writes:

That is  fair enough Bluce, Jester was and still is your mate and its only 
natural  that you should have some affinity for him. On a personal level he 
was a  nice person in your opinion, but would you say that he was a good  
webmaster? Being a webmaster involves dealing with a lot of various  
different people from different back grounds who all have different  opinions 
and to be a good Webmaster you must accommodate all these  different people. 
You must realize that everyone has different opinions  and you must respect 
these, you cannot go imposing your will and ego on  others.
When your Webpage becomes an extension of your ego is the time when  you stop 
being a competent webmaster. You only have to look at all the  people who got 
banned from his site to realize the limit of his man  management skills. The 
mistake Jester made was that if he disagreed with  someone he would try to 
humiliate them, abuse them, belittle them threaten  them and if they still 
did nt comply with his wishes then he would ban  them. He would even lie 
about people and change the facts in order to come  across as being devine 
and correct.
I see many parallels with  the way he ran his board and the way the 
American military carry on around  the World. Bullying people , threatening 
them and them wipe them out if  they don't comply.
This Gathering lists proves that its possible to  function without 
permanently banning people. Instead of taking a  confrontational stance 
against dissidents and thus  escalating the  conflict all it takes is a 
little personal E-mail saying "You ve over  stepped the mark and stop being a 
prick" ,then most reasonable people will  respect the Webmasters wishes and 
cease . To be a Webmaster you need to  have diplomacy and respect and not 
treat people like they are  worthless.
If you treat people with respect , then they respond in a  respectful way, 
if you treat people in an abusive way then they will  respond acordingly.
You only have to look at the way Jester is  abusing his power with the KJ 
board now, putting a Motley crue link in KJs  place. He is devalueing KJs 
name and making a mockery of the band. That  shows what a vindictive person 
he is and the levels he is prepared to go  to.
Can you se the paralels between Jesters behaviour and George  Bushs 
behavior? they both conduct their busines in the same  way.




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