[kj] OT: Summer 2011

[nicholas fitzpatrick]

Alex, wise words indeed. All the best.




> From: vassifer at earthlink.net

> To: gathering at misera.net

> Date: Mon, 8 Aug 2011 23:39:06 -0400

> Subject: [kj]  OT: Summer 2011

> 

> 

> Hey there, Gatherers...

> 

> Firstly, I want to say that I hope one and all my dear British friends  

> on this list are out of harm's way this evening. I've only heard  

> sporadic bits of news of what's going on, and it also sounds quite  

> disturbing. Be safe everyone.

> 

> Sorry to have been out of touch, but it's been a busy period of late.  

> More to the point, my father passed away suddenly on Thursday, and  

> it's been quite a surreal situation, to say the least. Suffice to say,  

> my and my sister's relationship with the man was unconventional at  

> best (he pretty much divorced my mother when I was born, and went on  

> to marry five more times....that's right, five). There's a mountain of  

> red tape facing my sister and I right now, and I don't think I've ever  

> been as overwhelmed in my life.

> 

> I will say this: Don't waste your time on grudges and bad blood. If  

> you're currently in a feud with someone you care about, sort that shit  

> out now before it's too late. It's a horrible cliche, but life is too  

> fucking short to waste on stupid grudges.

> 

> Mend fences with those you love. At the end of the day, nothing else  

> matters, and trust me -- being left with unanswered questions, painful  

> secrets and sentiments left unexpressed is a very heavy price to pay.

> 

> 

> be well, everyone.

> 

> - Alex in NYC

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