[kj] ot darren.. israelli neo nazis/ a qu... ;)

[jo]

People usually refer to as that when they really mean - you're a fuckwit. 
It happens quite a lot - can't think why but I sort of find it 
quite....sweet.

jo




> yeah darren,i kinda go along with much of your post,also i think refuring 

> to someone as" sweet" is very patronising,and a

> bit of an insult,which rolled of my back and left me thinking that the 

> person who said it,is very simple

> with a backward mind ;-D  ive never been called that b.4 it stinks 

> lol.......

>

> i mean,how many people in there right mind would refur to a middl-aged 

> woman as "sweet?" especially when the person saying it was also 

> middle--aged,personally i thought they were mad really

>

> :D))))  i mean i wasnt even called "sweet"  when i was a kid,when saying 

> that would be more relevant to that age group!!!!

>

> melinda  ps i thought the person who said it a proper berk  and very 

> creepy---dickhead ;-D)))))

>

> thanx anyways ok.....

>

>

>>From: "Darren A. Peace" <dpeace at bigfoot.com>

>>Reply-To: "A list about all things Killing Joke (the 

>>band!)"<gathering at misera.net>

>>To: "'A list about all things Killing Joke (the 

>>band!)'"<gathering at misera.net>

>>Subject: Re: [kj] israelli neo nazis/ a qu... ;)

>>Date: Sun, 9 Sep 2007 23:34:07 +0100

>>

>>For me, it's almost always a veiled insult. I would only describe a female

>>as "sweet" to their face when I mean that they are either a) vaguely 

>>creepy

>>or b) young enough to be my daughter. If describing a female as "sweet" to

>>someone else, I would often mean "half-simple", or easily satisfied.

>>

>>An act or attitude, however, can be sweet in a positive way, and I would 

>>use

>>it in that sense to mean thoughtful or kind. ("The way she forgave me for

>>impregnating her sisters was really sweet")

>>

>>However, I doubt I'm typical in this, as I'm a particularly sarcastic

>>person. Personally, I think "sweet" in this sense is a vague and 

>>unpleasant

>>word, in the manner of "nice". I'd far rather be specific (so "Rescuing

>>those puppies from the tsunami was a really considerate thing to do" 

>>rather

>>than "You're so sweet").

>>

>>Darren

>>Hungerford, UK

>>

>>-----Original Message-----

>>From: gathering-bounces at misera.net [mailto:gathering-bounces at misera.net] 

>>On

>>Behalf Of melinda grant

>>Sent: 09 September 2007 21:49

>>To: gathering at misera.net

>>Subject: Re: [kj] israelli neo nazis/ a qu... ;)

>>

>>ps  oh this as well john and the rest of" males on list",a question---

>>

>>what do you lot mean when you call a female sweet? whats your 

>>interpritation

>>for it,just wondered!

>>

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