[kj] OT - Saddest days of my life

[DAVE AXFORD]

Absolutely tragic... I can't even find the words to express my deepest
sympathy.
Be strong Javier. My thoughts are with you.

Dave


----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Javier Garcia" <jagargal at lycos.com>
To: "A list about all things Killing Joke (the band!)"
<gathering at misera.net>
Sent: Friday, June 09, 2006 12:48 PM
Subject: [kj] OT - Saddest days of my life


I've been away for almost 4 weeks.Went for vacation to Acapulco with my wife
and my daughter to spent
a whole week there.
Sunday May 21st: While driving my car on the
highway returning to Mexico City, my little girl, Jimena, gone sick
(actually she was barely sick of an apparently low flu since a
couple of days before), the look on her face was pretty sad with no
energy (an unusual thing on a little 2 and a half y.o. girl). We
stopped on Chilpancingo (a city about 2.5 hours far from Mexico
City) and took Jimena t a hospital, the Dr. told us to take her to
a hospital in Mexico City, Jimena may had a severe stomach
infection.
We arrived to Mexico City and took my weak little girl quickly to
the hospital. After about three hours, the Doctors told my wife and
i that Jimena had an important/dangerous lung infection. We spent a
whole week in the hospital, only leaving for little whiles to eat,
take a bath and feed the dogs. My little girl went very bad, then
her health turn better, we were optimistic. Sadly on monday morning
/ may 29th, the Drs. made my daughter some studies and things went
very bad since then. One lung was almost healed, but the other one
was in pretty bad shape. The fucking virus was ver aggressive and
destructive. As the virus advenced my baby, went into septic shock.
The doctors told my wife and i that things were not optimistic for
my little girl.

Jimena died that monday may 29th about 6:30 pm at the age of 2
years, 6 months and 10 days old.

Words can't explain the mix of frustration, anger and deep sadness
that my wife and I felt the days after. It was unbelievable.
Why? Why a gorgeus happy energetic girl?... and while i have a -now
12 y.o.- son (that lives with his mother) that still makes me feel
important, Jimena was my beloved little princess. I don't know you
guys, but i think a daughter changes your life as father more than
a son. Those little girls can really touch you deep into your
heart, and make you feel many new feelings. At least that made
Jimena to me.
It hasn't been two weeks yet since she passed away, and of course
my wife and i still cry sometimes (and still will), but the hardest
moments have gone away. Now we focus on the happiness and the
beautiful energy that Jimena brought to our world, on the amazing
strenght that she showed us in the hospital after a whole week on
bed and still showing that wonderful smile and high spirit.

Now it's just about time, not to forget, but to heal the hurts and
only leave scars.

Javier
mexico city


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